Posted on 28 May 2016 at 6:31 am.
Ever wondered why it is you can feel what another person is feeling? I was trying to work it out after that
amazing gestalt session with John Leary-Joyce.
After the session, people came up to me and reported feeling the same thing in their body at the same time as I was feeling it …
Posted on 20 May 2016 at 8:57 pm.
There’s never enough of it.
Or it drags.
Or it flies.
So we write lists; to do lists. Lots of people I know add things to their to-do lists after they have done them just so they get the pleasure of crossing them off.
Stephen Covey’s Urgent/ Important matrix is a tool I sometimes … Read more
Posted on 15 May 2016 at 5:04 am.
I have been thinking about when to be vulnerable.
Last week I wrote about the amazing coaching session with John Leary-Joyce. I got an email from Nicky who had seen the session and was reflecting on it, which really helped me to reflect further too. Here’s what I’ve been thinking.
Last week I mentioned the …
Posted on 30 April 2016 at 4:46 am.
I want to share a long held belief with you about men and women to see what you think.
I think that men and women have unconscious beliefs which hold us back from being authentically us.
Transactional Analysis uses the concept of
Driver Behaviours, which are unconscious behaviours which sometimes serve us and sometimes don’t.… Read more
Posted on 23 April 2016 at 5:01 am.
P and I were talking….about the nature of relationships…your average Sunday conversation.
He used the metaphor of 2 trees standing side by side but apart which reminded me of what
Kahil Gibran says in ‘The Prophet’: Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your
Posted on 16 April 2016 at 8:40 pm.
Do you ever feel alone?
We were away over Easter and there were times when I felt really alone.
We usually go on holiday with other people and I love having the choice to be alone or with others. This time it was just us. The kids had each other and most of the time …
Posted on 10 April 2016 at 8:05 pm.
I’ve just been listening to a
podcast about the Dangerous Old Woman on Sounds True By Clarissa Pinkola Estes (CPE).
CPE describes the Dangerous Old Woman as one who goes where she wants, says what she wants and will speak her mind. She is afraid of no-one, follows no rules, but listens to her …
Posted on 20 March 2016 at 11:43 am.
What is the perfect holiday for you and your family?
It’s that time of year again when people start to think about where they want to go on holiday with their family.
We wait all year to go on holiday..so how is it that they can end of being so stressful.
To me this makes …
Posted on 12 March 2016 at 6:08 am.
I’d love my own bed.
We’re sleeping in separate beds at the moment.
We haven’t fallen out, we aren’t splitting up, no one has had an affair, we are just sleeping in separate beds at the moment.
He’s had a cold so has been sniffling and coughing so has been bravely suffering in the spare …